The "digging into the cake" is the pinnacle performance marking a child's first year of life. I went to great lengths making Brynn her own special cake (which included dumping my first attempt down the garbage and running frantically to two grocery stores for Plan B), and wouldn't you know...the girl doesn't like cake! Not only does she not like it, she's scared of it!! Enjoy the sequence...and my guess at Brynn's thoughts... "Okay, here comes this thing on fire...I don't know how I feel about it..." "Okay, ummmm...I don't like this....I'm uncomfortable. Can you take this away..." "No really, I'm serious, this is making me very nervous, I don't like this AT ALL! Please!!" "What!? Dad is forcing me to have a bite!! Oh, this is horrible. I don't like this one bit! Please don't make me eat another bite!" And after only torturing our child momentarily, we stopped, of course. But... We decided ...